Yep, being able to kiss is a positive thing...but HB take heart...my H would stiffen like a board if he even thought I was going to touch or kiss him...eventually he would give me a token hug but I could tell he was doing this to keep peace and not for anything else...up until just a few weeks before we started "clicking" with each other again I had made an off-handed remark one night when we were coming home from some event that I invited him to take me too...I had a bit to drink and was feeling frisky...I asked if he would like a kiss before going and he looked at me with such disgust and said "uh, NO"...needless to say when he left I went to bed and cried myself to sleep!....But the major point is that just because your H is so anti-touch-me doesn't mean that won't change...it did with mine in a short time period...it went from no touching, to token hugs, to full on hugs, and eventually more...of course then he dropped the "I never liked kissing" on me...to my shock because he was such a good and willing kisser for the 27 years before all of this crap hit the fan!!!
Sigh...so take heart...all is not lost...just keep the patience!
