Thanks for all the support. Alimari and HB. H is feeling tremendous guilt of dumping her. he feels like he cannot cut off all contact (he is hoping she will find another boyfriend/husband and probably live happily ever after). Which means he will be contacting her for a LONG time, though long distance. I don't know when this will end. On one hand, I am glad that he is very nice to me otherwise, but I do not have 100% of him. I think I have to work on letting it go and hope she does move on. I admire you all for having so much patience. I do not currently. But i am reading and reading and trying to improve on keeping patience. Once again, I am glad there is this board. HB, hang in there, like you said, there are ups and downs.
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?
