I didn't really say much about him moving back in. He came to me & said that he feels that we cannot connect and work on our M while we r in 2 different houses. That he now knows how much he hurt me & he will never cause that kind of hurt again as he feels guilty about it all the time. He wants to show me how much I mean to him and how much he appreciates me. He knows he will have to have more tolerance at home & not fly off the handle quickly. He wants us to fall back in love even tho he said he still loves me & that never went away. He said he has always loved me & he knew it was there but he wants it to become stronger. I must admit he did a good job of saying everything I wanted to hear. The main thing I said was that we need to have openess & honesty b/c that is what I believe is important in a M. That there should not be secrets. This is b/c he has a big thing about his mobile. He believes that I shouldn't touch his & he shouldn't touch mine. That it is personnal. I told him that I have nothing to hide & he can look at mine whenever he wants & if he cannot comfortably leave his lying around for fear of what I will see then I find hard to believe he is not hiding something. I told him that is one thing I will not budge on. This is b/c people have contacted him on his phone & he hides who it is. That worries me so if this is going to truly work & he has nothing to hide it shouldn't be a problem. Am I wrong in thinking this???????
