Choc, I haven't read the boards much lately or even posted as much on my thread as I've wanted....but reading your thread makes me sooo happy for you. Just happy that you seem to have found your voice, that you are addressing the circumstances in your life in a way that will help you create a better future for yourself and Mrs Choc.
I just wanted to say hi and that I am sooo pulling for you.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."