... The OWH used to call me and tell me when they were together and it tore me up. He would call late at night and then I couldn't sleep....
That's rough, he was probably viewing you as part of his possible support network, or someone to talk to. Us guys, often do not have a social support system or friends who we can discuss this kind of issue with.
That is my task, to rebuild friendships, build a social network. I am shy by nature, so it's going to be very difficult.
IS 49 W 47 S 21 D 19 S 16 M 24y Together 31y EA Mar04-May 06 PA Feb06-Jun06 EA May07 Bomb Dec 28 07
Footfalls echo in the memory, down the passage which we did not take, towards the door we never opened Into the rose-garden. T. S. Eliot