Remember we all take two steps forward and one back. This is a long slow process and even when you move away I fear your H will still be dealing with emotional issues re: OW. Stay the course, watch for the small positive steps. He could be saying he doesn't want to stay married and that he doesn't think he'll ever be able to love you (like my H). You are in a rough spot right now - just breathe and do something for YOU!! You ROCK!!
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Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing