Well, my H has been acting as if nothing ever happened too. I have decided I need to deal w/ the issues I have w/ his EA and just trust him again. He said it's over and seems more & more close & loving each time I talk to him so I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt. Sometimes that's hard and I still get angry too.

MPO is that I would let the email thing go. If things are going forward w/ you guys, I don't think it will do anything for HIM if you rip them up in front of him or anything along those lines. It may even just make him mad for you bringing it up again.

I'm not saying not to deal w/ the issue in C, but I wouldn't be so dramatic about it.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10