thanks I appreciate your concern and caring. Part of my going dark is doing the opposite of how I was in our M. I talked alot, I was always available, accomodating and dependable to him. Now i'm unpredicable and he is going to be wondering what next. I have also been married for 27 years and we have alot of money in investments and no debt. Once I saw her on the cards , heard him tell me about getting a house with her and now his buying a motorcycle I think I had better protect the nest egg that me worked so hard to accumulate.
