Wow, that is crazy. I think I would freak out having the OW on our cards. I guess the one good thing (or maybe bad) is that mine is pretty much living off of her. He is staying in her parents house with her, her daughter and her parents. She paid his hotel bills for a month and bought him a cell phone. He does not take much money out of our accounts. So it seems to me that she is buying him happiness.
It is good that your kids are older. Mine are 3,5 8.
good luck with the dark thing.
Bomb 3/31/2007 Moved out 04/22/2007 Moved back in 06/11/2007 Wants to stay and try 09/04/2007