Quote:"I am thinking of a way to ceremoniously show him my forgiveness for the emails. Tear them up at our June 4th appt? I don't know what words I can say to best express to him that I am not a doormat, but I forgive him (the unspoken thing being that I would love for him to do the same for me.)"
Until you are absolutely sure of the direction your marriage is going to take, I would wait (years) on the destruction of evidence that might one day help you in securing support for your children.
I realize that sounds cold and callous, but it is a bit early (in my opinion) to be getting rid of evidence.
Forgive him any time you like. That is a good thing if you can handle it.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
