I want to plan for ANY scenario, the good and the bad. Prepare yourself, emotionally, physically and spiritually. Get your house in order so to speak.
Even though you feel like a weight has been lifted from your shoulders, from experience I can tell you there will be other challenges ahead. When children are involved, there is constant contact with the WAS, they simply don't just go away. I as well as others here are living it. Also, even though you are ready for this, educate yourself on the process. Know what to expect. Don't hurry through this to get it out of the way.
