Good for you Yoyo wife!!!! You're a great mom. I know exactly how you feel. I had those same feelings wanting my kids to shun their dad (I even had "good" reasons for encouraging it.. I didn't want them to grow up and do the same thing, or think cheating and leaving one's family is the right thing...). But I had to set myself straight on this. I grew up without a dad and that's an emptiness you carry your whole life. I didn't want my kids to carry it too.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
