My husband doesn't look at porn but one thing that sometimes bothers me a teeny bit is when I notice him looking at a really attractive women, and think maybe his eyes have settled there a bit too long. Although I tend to notice her first then look at him to see how he's looking at her. It's a bad habit I have. I mean, what's wrong? He doesn't leer at women and ALL men look at women. Heck, I always see men with their wives looking at me. Everyone "looks" at each other. We're all observers. I probably look at attractive men just a bit too long too. It's not like we can put blinders on our spouses!!! Fit them up like horses!!!! LOL!!!!


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