this info regarding the refinance is very bad. He is so willing to take you down a rat hole. You need to protect your assets
I agree IMP! This type of thing happened early in our M .. when farming went bad (early 80's). He ended up filing for bankruptcy .. after being kicked out (by me) and going on (IMO) a several month drinking binge/living with OW.
The only thing is .. NOW, everything is in my name. So .. maybe he is thinking he can do whatever he wants .. that he has nothing to lose ..? I don't know.
