I know sometimes it feels like we are spinning our wheels. Wouldn't it be nice to have a crystal ball to see what the future holds for us? It's been 7 long months for me, but at this point I'm not ready to throw in the towel. I've made several DBing mistakes, but I'm working on myself. I am getting better at doing things for myself and detaching. Only you can decide what you can take. Don't make the mistakes I have made and talk about the OW. Maybe she will soon start to get on his nerves and he will see how much he misses his family.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
