Madonna/Whore Part 3

[Heywyre]

LFL - COG might have some great points but not where this is concerned:

These things can not be separated in a man's mind. You can not mother him, and expect him to see you as a lover

I agree, MOST men do not want that type of R but we aren't dealing here with "most" men. We are dealing with men that do separate - they think separating love (their wife/partner) and sex (for the "dirty" woman) is normal. They cannot for the life of them put the two together in their minds.

My H is VERY content within our R - other than having sex. And, I would have to say, so am I. We have an incredible R, some that most people never find. We are the best of friends, we spend a lot of personal time together, we have great conversations, etc. you name it. If you asked my H who he would like to spend his quality time with, I guarantee you it would be me. He likes to cuddle, he's a very sensitive, deeply emotional man - he views sex as the lowest level of disrespect he could show his wife.