Racy emails & cybersex? That is what I would call cheating no matter how you look at it. You need to do something about that ASAP. Sit her down & talk to her about it in a way that is not necessarily accusatory so she doesn't just get all defensive, but it needs to stop or you are going to have a lot more problems. Just my opinion.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10