Racy emails & cybersex? That is what I would call cheating no matter how you look at it. You need to do something about that ASAP. Sit her down & talk to her about it in a way that is not necessarily accusatory so she doesn't just get all defensive, but it needs to stop or you are going to have a lot more problems. Just my opinion.
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