I'm just going to flat-out say this....there are times you will not understand, and you will not get answers to your questions...you will be left in the dark. Don't waste your time pondering these situations. You will only end up confusing or frustrating yourself further and that leads to you second guessing yourself, which in turn often leads to unattractive/needy behavior, just make a plan and act on it.
It's not easy letting go and not having answers, but it's often necessary.
