Lisa,

Make sure these decisions are being made with true intent and not based solely on emotion. I know emotion is involved, how can it not be! But, if you have thought this through and you are very clear in your direction, stay the course. Will he wake up? Will you take him back if he does?

Be prepared for a full range of responses from him. Calling you names, telling the kids things, to wanting to try again. Have a plan to stay nuetral, non committed, let him bring the effort this time around. We have seen and you have proven your character. Let's see Brian's when he doesn't have control.

Always do what is right, even if it hurts,

Steve