My sister sent me this quote (not sure of the source):
The chaos of not knowing what to do next opens the door for a completely new option.
Spent about 3 hours yesterday with H (on our boat). We both talked and cried. He said several times, "I may be making the biggest mistake of my lifetime", but he is convinced a divorce is the only way to go. I suggested a longer separation, but he said it wouldn't be the same. "No one will date a married man, or if they do it wouldn't be someone I want to date".
So, we will talk to D16 after his four day business trip. I will start accepting reality!
