Has your wife filed?

It doesn't look like Catfan's did.

Interesting that mine did but has not done much since. In fact she's delayed things at her request, how's that for mixed signals???

Have finances played a part in your split at all? I think that was such a huge deal for my W and I was such an idiot about it.

Looks like it was for Catfan's wife too.

Jeez, we need to step up and be men! we could have avoided this probably to a large extent just by living up to our agreements with our wives as men!

What a learning process this is. Why I have to go through D to get some good learning, I don't know? But I'm grateful for the experience to improve myself and be who I'm supposed to be. \:\)


We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...