JR the other thing that kind of made me happy/hopefull in talking to Jodi, she actually thinks in our case being seperated is a good thing in this situation, it did make me feel a bit better about the circumstances now.
She said the same thing to me, and it's TRUE! Know why? If I had been able to see and talk to my W this whole time, I would never have taken such a hard look at myself and I would not have had a chance (as slim as it may appear right now.) I would be D'd already. I would have been all over her asking her to take me back, groveling, whatever - all the unmanly stuff we try at the beginning of these adventures (yeah, that's what I'm calling it now )
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
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