Okay so heres the deal now....H is off on Tues/Wednes. Has been coming over on one of those days if not both. Sunday he says that his brother is coming into town to spend time w/him and Mother..playing golf for the day. But, he will come over on Wednes. No problem.

I decide I will try again and focus. So, moved around my schedule and got 2 good tickets to Baseball game from work. Tuesday afternoon H calls and says Brother has decided to stay another day and wants them to spend a Brother Day on Wednesday. He could come by for a few hours on Thursday Morning before his shift at the Casino. I got so mad because, I felt like thats what he use to always do..make plans..change it up.... plus I felt like everytime I try it leads to disappointment.

So, I have not heard from his since then. Which is out of his pattern of things he calls me everyday. So, now Im wondering whats he really up to? Back to the old ways? Trust is not there ya know?!

Any advice on this one?


Me: 40 H: 39
M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs
No kids
Seperated: May 18, 2006
EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving.
2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010