Thats exactly the problem Dixie. They learn survival skills so well that they never really hit bottom. Instead they go through life one tragedy at a time and disappointment after disappointment. I don't think they are ever truly happy and maybe don't have the strength to face the real issues so they can one day be happy. Umfortunately they also take other people along for the ride.
Stand up for what is right, even if you are standing alone.
