First of all, of course I and others here will support you. Sugar, you have been through the wringer with this "man," and I know how much you agonized over this the first time around. You had thought of filing many months ago - this is not new.
Secondly, though, I think that you should not dismiss what Breton said too quickly, about both H's feelings and yours. Remember how he changed his mind last time? Could happen again. You are very vulnerable right now, with all those silly hormones swimming around inside you, and a brand new baby to take care of. If he does decide he wants to come back, what boundaries are you going to have in place to ensure that this DOES NOT HAPPEN again? How will you cope w/ the D and a new baby? Think practically, okay?
Never mind about being 31 with five kids - that is not the issue. The issue is whether or not you want this man in your life. Right now, you don't. If he changes, you might. Please don't let him take up too much of your precious thoughts and energy.
Love, Nicola
Honey, we are here for you.
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