I want him back.... does he want me?

[brueniap]

I don't have an answer for you - but I wanted to bump this up so others won't let it get lost in the mix and not give you some help here. I wish I could feel comfortable in helping you with this situation but I don't. I would have said go for it until I read your age.

Your situation with your H sounded a bit like my own in the way the H's were acting. But you are so young yet. My H and I have already raised our kids........and he tried to see if there was another partner out there and there wasn't. He came back home after being away 14 months. But we are in our 50's and he will probably be ok resigning himself to coming home and being with me. I do know he still loves me - but he's cautious.....as am I.

Hopefully there will be more thots that others will give to help you weigh the pros and cons. And honestly........if you feel you need to know where you stand so that you can move on with your life.......than you should probably approach him about it otherwise you are allowing yourself to remain in limbo....holding on to who knows what.

God bless you whatever you do.

brue