Thanks Guys- Thing is I think I am doing this with a vlear mind- I actually feel ;ike a burden has been lifted- I don't have to dangle around waiting for him to decide if I am worthy of him-which is exactly what is happening-I have nothing to prove to him- He is a giant ass- I have to do this for myself to feel better. I want this !!! He is not going to change EVER!!!

Thanks again guys.
Lisa

Me:37
H:38
6 kids
first bomb 8/05 (ow involved)
piecing 7/06
second bomb 3/07 ow involved
wash rinse repeat....
huge move to start over 2/11
more affairs
H left for good 8/12