Lisa,

A new baby and divorce at the same time is like mega high on the stress scale. Two huge, big things.

If you can, slow down--not for him, but for yourself. Get back on your feet. Be able to do this with a clear mind.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D