hey bridget, have to say I love love love the determination in your posts and the strength with wich you carry out your "plan" I admire you!! and hope to someday be as good at this dbing as you are. I know what I should do but the keeping my mouth shut about it and letting go are tough!
my h too keeps his appartment but I don't get to complain about it's cost cause he no doubt would say the money doesn't effect our household (the benny of being a small business owner heh!) h has 2 cell phones a beeper and a phone at his office! why so many??
and the biggie...ea (pa still in ?) ow is STILL a customer and h has yet to decide what to do about that despite the fact that I want her to GO!! (to hell actually but I'd settle for just no longer a customer)
so what can we do about these things that they "know" are bothering us but are yet to change??
bite off the tips of our tounges in waiting for them to do something?
sit with the knowledge that if they don't step up we can always step out?
puzzled?? like you if I look close enough my h IS showing me signs of love they just happen to be in his way, ie I am looking for signs of affection to me that would be a hug a rub on the back a stolen kiss on the cheek etc to h apparently it is a quick pinch on the a$$ as he passes me by, this used to annoy the heck out of me in the past but now I look at it as his hug or quick kiss and it pleases me, would I rather not be treated like a football player? you bet but I'll take it for now!!
