I second what BND says. You are doing what is right for you and that is all that is important. You are taking charge of your life and taking the best care you can of your kids.
Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.
bomb: Jan 25, 2006 not seen since DD moved in with H - 9/1/08 H filed for divorce - 11/2008 Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010 still nothing