Corri,

I don't think it is pushing when you have a different POV. I think it is pushing when another declines to argue, and you continue to hammer away.

You seem to like this point. When have I push a point when someone actually declined to argue? Give me an example. Just how often does this occur, or are you stuck on one incident somewhere?

I'm glad YOU know what bothers me, and you are here to tell me what **I** feel.

OK, so what bothers you? Here's a question - is it your hatred (or something to that effect, which you stated when you defended me some time back) of seeing someone bully another, that you feel compelled to stand up for the underdog? Like I said, a while back you reluctantly defended me. Now you appear to me to be defending Nop. Tomorrow maybe someone else.

I believe my point was rather succinct. I will repeat it again. I don't think it is pushing when you have a different POV. I think it is pushing when another declines to argue, and you continue to hammer away. I don't see where there is a need for validation in that, either.

This does not speak to what bothers you:

There you go again, telling ME how **I** feel, what MY intentions are.

Where did I say I knew how you feel? I said “I know that you know what I meant.” How you feel about that is something else.

I do believe in the beginning of this convo, that I said two POVs can be true at the same time. Doens't mean you have to agree.

So what’s your point? I thought I stated the same?

If you fail to understand what it is you think I am trying to communicate, please tell me and I will try to phrase in another way.

Since you aren’t being so cryptic, I understand what you are trying to say. I still don’t see how much relevance this has other than I get under your skin, probably for some FOO reason. I still think this is all about validation and its my GD POV that it pisses you off because you feel I don’t give it enough.


Cobra