I know it is going to take time. And I don’t expect anything from her right now. But….. She is giving little things. Like today she called to let me know what the mechanic said about her car and to talk about our son playing fall ball. Something that could have waited until she got home. She has not called me to just talk in soooo long. When she has been going shopping she has been buying things that I’m the only one in the house eats. And it does feel good working on being a better, more patient, more wonderful guy, dad, friend, ET. In the past I did do things for my W because I felt I HAD to. Now I am doing things because I want to. As for the “hormonally challenged” My W is 53 and she has been going through meno for the last 5 yrs. (That’s another book that needs to be made. “WHAT MEN NEED TO KNOE ABOUT MENOPAUE”)
All I wanted was a little crump that things are SLOWLY working. And I think I got it. I’m in a frame of mind of dating. I wouldn’t come on strong to a woman I just met. Baby steps
Thanks for being a success story. There are too many sad ending posts here. I hope one day that I too can came back and help others with my success story. As for my goal: I want my W to want to come back. Not come back because she feels obligated.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
