Mimi
This is just the begining, honey you have a very long way to go.

There are a few rules you need to follow.

1. Keep your mouth shut. Do not allow him to bait you into a fight.Buy duct tape if you need to.

2. Do not discuss your marital problems with your family or his. Do not vent to your Husband, bring your crap here, to this board.

3. The next few years are going to seem like an eternity if you choose to stand. Use your time wisely. Work on your own issues. Work on you. Take up a hobby.

4. Your Husband will go through many different moods in a single day. This is about him. Do not try to fix the beast. Just let him be.

When he is being nice and kind, respond in the same manner.
Do not play head games.
Do not snoop.
Do not involve the kids.
Do not begin dating.

The list goes on and on.
Most of all, take care of yourself, eat and excercise and do things to keep you happy.

(((((hugs)))))

Faith

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.