He takes the kids..you do something for YOU! friends...spa....massage...something! Remember he baits you. Stop analyzing. Give him space....yeah mine after 3 months thought OW was soulmate, love of his life...blah blah blah even tho we had been together 25 yrs. Thats what they do and it hurts sweets to the very core of our being.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest