But the cell phone bill is just way to petty and controlling. It kills sexual desire and that's a high priority here.
Oh but condoms and blood tests don't?
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Here's a much better boundary "if you ever cheat again, I will D you". Now that's what I call a boundary, and don't bore me with the details.
This is NOT a boundary, this is a demand, plain and simple and it does not guarantee he won't do it again - especially when you are dealing with M/W complex. Sorry, this doesn't cut it.
Every M/R has to have boundaries, and transparency is one of the boundaries needed in every M/R but particularly one that has dealt with infidelity. It has been confirmed from every book I have read, every person that has gone through it and come out on the other side (good and bad) and from psychologists that have guided thousands of patients - can they all be wrong here?
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
