Exactly SG - I have to stand my ground, and he has to know I won't be backing down. Otherwise, I might as well just throw in the towel right now
Tenacity COG - You bet your a$$ I have tenacity and nobody is going to take that away from me. If you, my H or anyone else finds that a little mothering or overbearing, that's too darn bad now isn't it. Seems to me you stood your ground not that long ago and it did you well.
As for the cell bill being asked for on May 4th - that is probably around the right date. However, the cut off period for his cell bill is the 13th, that would include April 14th right through to May 13 - the same period of time he was in the other city. So if he had called her before that date, yes, it would be pretty stupid of him to say he would offer them up but at the same time, saying that he would provide them to me might have been his way of deflecting (he's a pro when it comes to that) in the hopes I would "forget" like I have done so many times in the past just so as not to cause waves. I am tired of being the doormat - get the drift?
When he provides me with the information needed to access the cell bill online, that will tell the story. If there is nothing there - great!! But if there is something there that needs addressing, I would hope that (1) he would tell me himself before I see it and/or (2) we will address it headon!!
I love you too - but the vent felt good - LOL
Take care
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
