Why wouldn't he, if she can't even follow through with a simple boundary?
It's a weak boundary to begin with. Here's a much better boundary "if you ever cheat again, I will D you". Now that's what I call a boundary, and don't bore me with the details.
Think about it. The more you require your S to be transparent, the harder they have to work to be nontransparent, therefore the more difficult it will be to actually see through them.
You can not legislate or demand another person to have morals, ethics, and honesty. It's something that comes from within.
There's no worry about STD's right now because there's no sex. If that happens, there's always blood tests and condoms. I can see that as another valuable boundary. Heck yes he should have a blood test and show the results. But the cell phone bill is just way to petty and controlling. It kills sexual desire and that's a high priority here.
God Bless,
COG
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