Lisa, I really think that you are too emotional right now to make this kind of decision. I would give it the old 24 to48 hour rule, and then double that for hormones!
Are you really sure you are done? Can you support yourself with spousal support?
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.