How about mentioning that FD told you that he and his W are fighting a lot and see what happens. You could ask him - if the timing is right - if he thinks she might be having A.
In retrospect, I knew my H was. I checked his internet history obssessively b/c I was sure he was having an online A, since he was too busy working (or so I thought!) to have one IRL. All I ever found were porn and comic book sites. Yup - got a winner here!!!
~ Nicola
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My friend just left, I told him what I knew, that his W is spending alot of time talking to this guy. He was sort of OK, he told me he figured she was up to no good with someone and he wasn't too surprised to hear it.
He told me she has been neglecting things around the house for a couple of months and she has been "out with the girls" fairly often the last couple of months as well. He said he was about to talk to me about this anyway as what he can see at home is alot like what happened with me.
He was calm when he left, almost looking defeated. He mentioned that if it is true he would probably take a stand as I have because he sees that I am getting to OK after this time in standing. He plans on watching the calls and her nights with the girls before he is doing anything. I told him to call if he needed anything when he left. I also told him about DR and this site, who knows he may even be lurking right now.
This f-ing sucks, it's like finding out myself all over again. BLEH.
I chose the word retribution in the title because of the fact a person who has condemed what others have done (affairs) is about to be exposed. I don't know if it's an EA or PA but from what FD told me it was an A of some sort. I struggled with letting the cat out of the bag but I had to do it. You see it's like UA said, her h would have wanted to know, I have an X friend who knew what my W was up to I found out he knew and we are not and will never be friends again. Thats why I told what I knew, I think it is something a true friend should do.
Sparkles I am in surfer shorts and a tank today trying to enjoy the sun.
