I am thinking about giving this note to my h in his lunch tomorrow:
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I just want to let you know again how much I appreciate all the little things you do. It is great that we haven't been arguing or yelling at each other. We are doing things for each other that we haven't done before or haven't done in a long time. I want to do everything possible to continue that trend. I am hoping you will do something to help me with that. There are some things that are very important to me that I have had a hard time communicating to you. They are things that I have been wanting since we were married and gone about communicating it to you in destructive ways. I have belittled you, become uninterested in sex, nagged, etc. Being sexual outside of actually having sex is very important to me. By that, I mean fondle my breasts, nibble my ears, slap my butt, grab my butt, long slow kisses, hold my face in your hands when you kiss me, pull me tight to you when we kiss, eye contact when we are in the bathroom together, compliments, etc. Would it be okay to try to do just one of those things every day? If that isn't okay, please tell me. I am enjoying having sex with you. Doing these other things makes it even more enjoyable. They make it more like making love and less like just sex. I know I have asked you before to do these things and you have said it is okay to remind you. I hope that it is still okay. If there is some other way that you prefer to be reminded or not reminded at all, please tell me.
