he did not want me to start reading books or going to groups on it, 'cause he thought it would do me more damage than good. (??)
If you go though my posts, you will see I say that a lot. I didn't really until after the fact. In my opinion, it keeps you caught up in the junk. And you did have someone to explain it to you. Not sure if that is what your C had in mind, but I am with him.
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There was only one that really did any good for him. That one, (I believe) got too close to his problems (for comfort) 'cause he quit going entirely.
I can see that being a good possibility.
U&D, this info regarding the refinance is very bad. He is so willing to take you down a rat hole. You need to protect your assets.
