My friend just left, I told him what I knew, that his W is spending alot of time talking to this guy. He was sort of OK, he told me he figured she was up to no good with someone and he wasn't too surprised to hear it.
He told me she has been neglecting things around the house for a couple of months and she has been "out with the girls" fairly often the last couple of months as well. He said he was about to talk to me about this anyway as what he can see at home is alot like what happened with me.
He was calm when he left, almost looking defeated. He mentioned that if it is true he would probably take a stand as I have because he sees that I am getting to OK after this time in standing. He plans on watching the calls and her nights with the girls before he is doing anything. I told him to call if he needed anything when he left. I also told him about DR and this site, who knows he may even be lurking right now.
This f-ing sucks, it's like finding out myself all over again. BLEH.
