Thanks Cat03! I'll get the book and have him read it! I'm pretty sure he's getting ready for some changes himself, too. When he sees the changes in me, he can't keep thinking changing is impossible (like I used to believe). Sometimes I wonder how our marriage survived over 10 years, when I knew so little about relationships and happiness and life in general! When he was thinking about leaving, I saw he had googled "what is love". Well I didn't know what it was either but now I do.
M40, H41, D12, S10, S7 Married 13 years H left 4/2005 H came back 8/2005 piecing for the rest of my life
