Yes GEL, this is something we are working on too. It wasn't just the cell bill or the visa bill that he was using to pay for his "habit" it was way more than that. He wouldn't even tell me about the simple things going on in his life. That has changed tremendously as he starts to see I am not going to abandon him (a BIG issue in his life being he was adopted plus he experienced that in other relationships)

It is amazing how excited I get just to hear him tell me something like what was in the mail today. That is his way of trying to be open and transparent, this is a HUGE leap for him.

And the more you and I talk, GEL, the more I am convinced he definitely has M/W complex. Even he is having a hard time denying it (although he does comment on me trying to analyze everything and try to "fix" things - like he doesn't? LOL)




Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)