Yes, I qualified that comment with the excerpt I copied below from that post ..
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even though we've done all of that we know .. to change what we could. (Within ourselves of course, 'cause that's all we have control of .. )
Some of the hope that this board gives .. I think, is that by becoming a "better person" may invoke positive reactions/changes in our wayward spouses .. right?
That said, I DO know that the positive changes that we make has to be for ourselves. These positive changes hopefully will make us stronger to "move on" .. if needed.
