No kidding..... The crazy thing is I most likely can afford to buy her out and keep the house. I am hoping that by me keeping the house I will have a better chance of getting the girls primary residence with me. Who knows, even if she filed tomorrow I have time to figure it out.

Rightnow my attitude has changed to that my W doesn't deserve me. If she wants to stay she is going to have to win me back. I want my family intact but she is going to have to prove that this BS is over and that she is all in before my arms are opened up to her again.