Yours isn't the only valid POV, yet you post and argue at times like it is.
Assumption on your part. I fully recognize other POVs. I don't have to argue in their favor though.
Nor do you seem to give credence to the fact that two POVs can be equally valid.
I think I have done this many times. I think different POV's can be applied to most situations in general. But fine tuning which one works best in light of the two personalities involved means one or the other will be preferable. I will argue for what I see as the best.
You just don't come off that way, and in the spirit of discussion, it can be quite alienating.
Maybe that's where you and I differ. I don't see this is so much a discussion forum but more a debate forum. There are NO right ideas. There are some entrenched ideas which IMO, need some shaking up. That means challenging the status quo, thinking outside the box, putting forth new ideas. I think I have tried to do just that.