We all have our demons. I broke trust with my wife over several things that I just didn't tell her about. Then when I did, it broke her heart. I never lied to her, I just kept things from her, which was just as bad.

These things are a BIG reason she's having trouble trusting me, or wanting to learn to trust me again.

I thought I was protecting her from pain, I was protecting myself from embarassment and I should have told her so she could HELP me! And she would have, if I had been forthcoming at a better time in our lives. Sad reality, important lesson learned, I'm dedicated to doing better for myself and my relationships in the future.

Oh, and I got your last line in your post in my last thread ;\)

We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...