Yep you are going against the grain here again LOL, so that prompts me to ask you this...and I mean absolutely no offense, it's an honest question. Have you ever been cheated on? Have you ever been betrayed by someone you trusted so totally that it shook you to your very foundation?
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But ask yourself some questions. Why do you really need to see that cell bill? What will you do if you find out he's called her? What good will it do to know? Will you leave him, further critisize him, put a bar of soap in his mouth, what? How will seeing that bill improve your ST?
The bill has nothing really to do with the ST COG, it has to to with rebuilding trust from infidelity. What she's hoping to see is that he HASN'T contacted that escort again, which would verify what he told her, which would in turn help to rebuild the trust. If she finds out he DID call her, then that goes back to tearing down the trust again....because he would have lied to her about it. Heywyre and her H have more than just w/m issues to deal with. What good would it do to know? Oh come on...if he contacted the escort, there would be a VERY GOOD chance that he didn't just talk with her. As Heywyre herself said, STD's....she has every right to know EXACTLY what she's dealing with in her marriage. So once again, this has to do with TRUST issues between them, not ST.
