I understand where you are coming from COG but you also have to understand where I am coming from too. I know if I see that bill, and there is nothing on it, that will be a HUGE move to healing. It was something we agreed on, and it should be carried out
Why do I care if he saw her? SHE'S AN ESCORT !!!!! Hello?? STDs ???? I need to know there was nothing going on and move forward from there. Also there is the secrecy, the lies and his going to C for what? Just to tell me more lies. Would I leave him if I found out he did? I don't know for sure but there is a VERY good posibility I would
Quote:
First of all, looking at his answers without his direct permission was snooping.
I did not look at his answers without his permission. We had to send them back to the ST before the appointment and he gave them to me to scan and send back. I asked him if he wanted to go over them together before I sent them back and he said no. I specifically told him I wouldn't look at his answers and he said "it doesn't matter to me that you see them" - so there was no snooping, I had permission
It has nothing to do with me "being sexy" because he doesn't find me that anyway. We are dealing with a whole different issue here than most people on this board, ask GEL, she can confirm that too
I still say we had an agreement and I am expecting him (yes "expecting" him) to hold up to his side of it. He's a businessman and should know better than to stab his best partner in the back. As much as it might not appear sexy, at least I am standing up for my rights and what I believe in first and foremost - HONESTY
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)